"He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me."
If the first commandment is a warning against idolatry, if you seek and find Love, what happens if you replace Creator for creature? You fall from Grace, and Love is replaced for "love". It's a spiritual law; how can you love anyone more than Truth and your love still remain true? Your connection to the Source is kept alive when the Destination is clear to you, and destination comes second.
To say and do anything to please the world, the adulterous generation, is a betrayal you commit against yourself, that is, who you in communion with Truth could be in the Present and become in the Future. You waste your Time, ruin your Life, only to meet the expectations of others too self-centered to really care. You won't be creating or strengthening anything, except a fake bond.
I'm just daring to be great.
I let the Commander run deep in here.